“Stay at home” “Rest ou lacaz”: these words make the hashtags of Facebook posts, and they are making the buzz on daily news channels.
I can see how people are fed up of this confinement. “Ah quand nu pu cav sorti pual aster ene bon dholl puri dewa?” I can see the frustration, I can see the anger on people’s face when they cannot go to visit their relatives or their girlfriend! I can see the demotivation on the ado’s expressions and through the memes. I can see how people are complaining about not having enough food at home, how even prayer halls have been closed, how economic activities have come to a halt, how people were afraid of losing their jobs and not having their salary. I can also see teachers crying for help when it comes to adapting to online learning apps and I can see front liners risking their lives every day. I can see it all. And upon immediate reflection there is absolutely no good in this situation.
But I know that these things, you can see it too. We can all witness that. The wrath of this pandemic is like a tainted glass pane. And unfortunately only a few of us can lookthrough it. Can you see what’s hidden behind? Well, of course you will not, because you need a good pair of googles to do that and you know what’s that pair of googles? It is called positivity and new mindset.
If you wear positivity and new mindset as your pair of googles, you will be able to see through the tainted glass pane. You will be able to see through the wrath of coronavirus. You will see how the world will change, how our life will change.
I wore that pair of googles and you know what it showed me?
It showed me a different bunch of people who no longer being selfish. It showed mepeople abiding by the proverb sharing is caring. I saw people valuing their neighbors. I saw people satisfying themselves with a small piece of bread and only a spoonful of curry. I saw people being happy with simple non-branded clothes. I saw our rivers being clean again, the plants and flowers flourishing again, people being able to breathe the fresh non-polluted air again and climate change activists finally smiling. I saw people being patient rather than losing tempers, working hard at the office and knowing the value of their job. I saw people being satisfied with the amount of money they have in their pocket. I saw all of us being hygienic in all walks of life,respecting others and accepting one another with no racial or social status distinction. I saw people being treated equally, being self-sufficient and standing on their own feet. I saw the highest valued assets as improvisioning skills and creativity. I saw arts and crafts century reviving and cottage industries emerging. Above all, I could see people who survived, became stronger and living in a whole new world while starting a whole new life, modestly yet happily. Yeah of course, I couldn’t ignore the shopping malls packed, the long queues in the food courts and the shortage of cinema seats- this is normal because we missed that! But the mindset itself, will tell a whole different story.
You know why? Because during this pandemic, we have learnt the value of not having a piece of bread at home and going to bed with an empty stomach. We have learnt the pain of other people who experience this daily. We have learnt that we can lose our family at any point in time. We have learnt that the first people to come to our rescue for a pocket of flour are our neighbors. We have learnt that even if we are rich or poor, we are humans and are equally at risk of anything and that sometimes our money and power holds no value but our prayer does. We have learnt how it feels not going to work and sitting at home idle. And on top of that, we have learnt to appreciate every moment of this life because we understood that this world was never meant to be forever for us anyway.
Indeed, an economist’s perspective would be well different given the negative growths that will emerge. People stopped spending and many huge sectors have been shaken. But if we are heading towards a better future, are these losses still a high price to pay? Redirecting and restarting a new economy with new human values and mindsets as well as new ways of handling production, isn’t really that bad but still requires a lot of insight and audacity! And it is not impossible- either we adapt or we perish.
Dear all, we have now come to a cross road where we have to choose turning left and choosing the old ways or turning right to bid adieu to old habits and start writing on a blank canvas. If we succeed in giving birth to a new world after this confinement, we will indeed be winners.
For the first time since I was born, I lived without McDonalds, I lived without Jennyfer, I lived without Oreo, I lived without cinema. It was hard. It was depressing. But I made it. And this is when I realized that I wouldn’t die without these but what I really needed to survive was a piece of bread and butter. And to be honest, I feel grateful to have been in this mode because it was an excellent teacher to me.
All this time we have been saying we don’t have time: Our children asks us for a story telling time, we say we don’t have time; our mother tells us to stay a bit longer after the dinner, we say we don’t have time; our sister tells us to play with her, we say we don’t have time; our wife tells us to watch a movie together, we say we don’t have time. Let us look back- how was our life before confinement? How busy were we, how selfish were we, how blinded were we and how harsh we were to ourselves? This is the time. It is your time to spend with yourself, your family, your children and your parents. Although pathetic how we needed a small virus to bring us closer to our family, isn’t it a blessing in disguise? Reflect. It’s day 26 of confinement while I am writing this. Confine yourself but not your thoughts.
For me, sure it is.
Special love and gratitude to doctors, officers working from home, nurses, midwives, police, journalists, scavengers, teachers, shop owners, our government as well as each human being who are doing a great job and sticking together while staying apart.
Stay safe, stay blessed.